Please don't be concern about your appearance at all.
It's almost always that when we're growing old we will most likely horizontally growing more or less.
It's truely a nature way of human being. Be proud of what you have and being given
I can say for all of us here that we "love you just the way you are" regardless of what you think you see in your mirror. We love you and Pov for what you are tirelessly doing for us here.
Each of us here are inevitably growing old day by day, we'll all physically less attractive week by week but we will see more clearly of what each of us has inside and that is the "Ultimate beauty" not only the young and pretty faces we used to have before.
Cheer up Dej, never allow the real truth brings you down!
And to Cin,
I've tried to watch your 2 new clips at YT, but my comp acted up again, lots of stops/stalls, I gave up and will watch them later.